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If I understood your e-mail, I think I understand why it would be upsetting to you. I have no way of knowing if one of my (500) students would be stressed out by my gentle reminder that he has an overdue book...it is something I do a minimum of 5 times a day. While we are set up for student check-in & check-out, my circulation system is set up to make 'noises' if a student has reached any number of thresholds...overdue, holds, maxed re-newal, etc. Anytime I hear the sound for an overdue (and I'm not teaching a class), I walk over, check the record and ask the student if they know where Owl Moon (or whatever) is. Followed with: Can you bring it back right now? Can you remember to bring it tomorrow? Have you looked at home? And in my situation, where we are completely flexible and implement Reading Rennaisance I might ask the same questions of the same kiddo 3 or 4 times in the same week. (And to answer some of the unasked questions...yes I still allow students to check out with an overdue. But I do stop allowing them to check-out books whenever they reach $50 of overdue books or 3 books whichever is reached first. Even if they have 3 books overdue or a total of $50, they can still read books from my shelves, just not outside of the library. I also run overdue notices 1x per week and put them in teacher's mailboxes to be sent home with school correspondence. It does take time, but the end result is I can say I have been notifying parents & students all along the way. They are also slipped into grade card envelopes each nine weeks. I also make phone calls to parents when they are warranted.) So I can see myself being hurt if I were blind-sided with an accusation of 'stressing' a student out because I was doing something that up until now my students have found helpful. One thing I have found helpful when dealing with an angry parent is to just apologize for what I can and do my best to compromise what I can. For example, "I'm so sorry that Timmy was upset about me reminding him about his overdue book. It was not my intent to 'stress him out', but to be helpful. I understand that he is only 9 and may be struggling with responsibility which is why I thought he would benefit from a verbal reminder rather than just sending home the paper overdue notice. Please understand, I do have to follow district policies regarding lost materials, so if the book can't be found then...insert your district policy. However, I do have some latitude on how to communicate his overdues. In the future, how would you like me to communicate this?" I always take the upset parent (not that I have very many), teacher, or patron as an opportunity to evaluate my practices. Sometimes I find that there is something I can improve upon or correct a problem I wasn't aware of. And, sadly, sometimes I find that people are upset because I'm doing my job well and it's easier to blame me than accept responsibility for themselves or their children. Good luck, Veronica! Geneva Johnson, NBCT 2004 Library Media Specialist Ator Heights Elementary Owasso Public Schools johnsong@owasso.k12.ok.us "The limits of your language are the limits of your world." -- Ludwig Wittgenstein -------------------------------------------------------------------- Please note: All LM_NET postings are protected by copyright law. You can prevent most e-mail filters from deleting LM_NET postings by adding LM_NET@LISTSERV.SYR.EDU to your e-mail address book. To change your LM_NET status, e-mail to: listserv@listserv.syr.edu In the message write EITHER: 1) SIGNOFF LM_NET 2) SET LM_NET NOMAIL 3) SET LM_NET MAIL 4) SET LM_NET DIGEST * Allow for confirmation. * LM_NET Help & Information: http://www.eduref.org/lm_net/ * LM_NET Archive: http://www.eduref.org/lm_net/archive/ * EL-Announce with LM_NET Select: http://lm-net.info/ * LM_NET Supporters: http://www.eduref.org/lm_net/ven.html * LM_NET Wiki: http://lmnet.wikispaces.com/ --------------------------------------------------------------------