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Thanks for all the responses I received!  As requested, here is a hit.
 
Did you receive any advice on the appropriateness of the Twilight books?  I thought 
I would suggest a review of the book Breaking Dawn in Today's Christian Woman. 
(Nov/Dec 2008, p.10)  I think the sexual content increases with the progression of 
the series.  I have only read the first one and half of the second (New Moon) so 
far.  My opinion: If you have read it and question it yourself, then don't put it 
on your shelf.  The kids will get the book another way if they really want to read 
it.  Maybe use some of the suggestions that were posted on a previous LMNET Hit on 
what to read after Twilight.
 
I had my Twilight book club meeting this afternoon. I had about 10 students attend. 
We talked about the siginficance of the book cover, Bella being a 'good' role 
model, Edward as a role model for boys, the biblical quote at the beginning of the 
book, and we compared twilight to other classic fairy tales. It was a good meeting 
with lots of discussion. I served apples with caramel dip with apple juice and 
strawberry mini doughnuts. All of the snacks had some siginficance to the book.
I plan to have a New Moon book meeting in december. i want to give you a couple of 
sites that might help you make a decision. 
www.thetwilightsaga.com  and www.funtrivia.com search for twilight. Me personally I 
dont think there is anything objectionable. 
twoother articles that might be of some help.
 
http://www.reelzchannel.com/article/754/10-things-parents-should-know-
 
http://www.reelzchannel.com/article/734/top-10-ways-twilights-and-true-bloods-heroines-are-alike
 
OK--I have chosen not to have these books in our library simply because even here 
in the Philippines kids can go and buy it for themselves if they really want it. 
Many of my parents do have a bit of the problem with the vampire theme, although I 
have Dracula...Like many Christian schools--I don't think of it as censorship but 
selection and just like many public schools would not dream of putting a Christian 
novel in their collection (using the same reasoning) we do have to acknowledge the 
fact that we are different and many parents send their kids to our schools because 
of that.I haven't read them myself yet--I tried over the summer while I was in the 
states and could get them in the public library--but just couldn't get into it. 
However--I had several Christian parents tell me that they had no problem with 
their kids reading them as long as the parent read them first. I think it was the 
last one in the series that was causing the most concern amongst them. 
Anyway--that's my 2 cents.
 
The only book with any kind of sexual content is the 4th book, where the couple 
gets married and has a very glossed over wedding night. The first three only have a 
lot of longing looks and kissing. The author is a Mormon, and therefore pretty tame 
with the romantic scenes.
I am at a Catholic school and have all the books. There is some sexualcontent in 
the 4th book, but it isn't graphic and the characters havewaited through the first 
3 books to get married before they have sex (itis on their honeymoon and spoken 
about in the most general terms-apregnancy arises from it and there is no more 
after that). There is nobad language, no drugs, no premarital sex and the vampires 
are "moral"and do not kill people, only wild animals. The author is a Mormon 
andstays true to her religious beliefs. Middle school girls love thisseries!
 
It might help to remember that the author of Twilight is a pretty devout Mormon, 
and there for the sexual content is very minimal.  It is really nothing more than 
passionate kissing and talk of desire until the very last book and at that point, 
they only have sex when they are married and there are very little details 
discussed.  It is more of an implied tension than overtly sexual.  All in all, I 
think the moral issues are handled very well--waiting for marriage to have sex, 
being in love, being a respectful and protective partner, etc.  I encourage you to 
read the first one that you feel comfortable with the content before you put it in 
your library, as you know best what works for your population.  I think you will 
probably really enjoy the book!  In my opinion, I would think that it would be 
okay--maybe try using parent permission slips or phoning home first when students 
ask to read them?
 
There really isn't too much sexual content in the first three books of theseries 
(just kissing). The only sexual content appears in the fourthbook, and it is after 
the two characters are married and on theirhoneymoon. Even then it is very subtle 
and not explicit or untasteful atall.
 
I have the Twilight series in my Catholic school library.  There is no explicit sex 
and Meyer doesn't introduce the topic with Bella and Edward until after they marry. 
 Her Mormon principles keep it low key.
 
The sexual content is implied not explicit. I definitely would NOT put book 4 in 
your library as Bella and Edward are married have a honeymoon, baby, etc.
 
I think I would err on the side of caution and make that a series the students 
should purchase on their own, much as we have done with the Gossip Girls and Clique 
books.
 
This is JMO, and I live in the Bible belt, so we err on the side of caution. If you 
do a hit, please leave out my identifying info. Thank you.
 
Good morning. I am currently reading the  Twilight series and am on the third book 
and so far there really hasn't been much sexual contact. Mostly just some mild 
kissing since the main character can't really get close to her without wanting to 
drink the girl's blood. I haven't yet found anything that a Christian would really 
object to but I wouldn't let anyone under high school age read it. As the books 
progress I am starting to see more of an adult theme which is reasonably since the 
kids are growing up and now 18 and 19 yrs old. I am also considering buy the books 
for our library and I might suggest for you to do what I am doing. Find a parent 
who you trust to give you an honest objective oppion and ask them to read it. I 
have a mother in the school system where I am, who has a daughter the age of the 
girls requesting the book so she is reading it for me and will let me know what she 
thinks. So far she hasn't found anything wrong or anything that she would be 
opposed to her daughter reading. 
 
This was on the listserv the other day. It maybe helpful. Here is a link for 
parents on why they should let their students readTwilight by Stephenie Meyer. I'm 
excited since one of my commentswas used. A comment that I expanded on that was 
mentioned here onthis list serv, so thanks!! My username listed is suelibevg, 
underthe not just chick literature. Check out the article at this link 
onreelzchannel.comhttp://www.reelzchannel.com/article/754/10-things-parents-should-know-about-twilight
 
I am the media specialist in a relatively conservative Christian school and we do 
have the Twilight series. The first three are on our Scholastic Reading Counts 
list. My library serves middle school and high school and we have restricted the 
books to high school. One girl brought the first book back and said her mother 
wouldn't let her read it due to the "vampire theme." Other than that, we haven't 
had any complaints and they are wildly popular. I have read them all and they are 
very sensual (lots of "making out") but the vampire Edward is determined to wait 
until marriage for sex:-) They marry in the 4th book and there is a lot of talk 
about how much they enjoy their married state but it isn't too descriptive, 
although more so than in  the other books. Two mothers have come to me and told me 
the Twilight books were the first books their girls actually loved, read 
voluntarily and tested well on. 
Hope this helps.
 
After the many emails from this listserv on the Twilight series, I had to get them 
for my personal collection to see what they were about.  I just finished the first 
book in the series and there was no sexual content.  In fact, Edward and Bella only 
actually kiss a few times and the description is of his lips being like stone.  The 
main characters in the book, Bella and Edward, are extremely smart and there are 
other character traits that are very positive. I haven't read the others in the 
series but I do recomend the first one especially since the movie is coming out.
Hope this helps!
 
I did work in a religious school (Solomon Schechter) & I have read the first 2 
books of the series, so I can appreciate your hesitation.  I don't think that you 
need to hesitate to put the first 2 in your collection.  I haven't put the 4th book 
out yet because I did hear that the last one does have some "heightened" 
excitement, but since I didn't read 3 & 4 yet, I don't feel qualified to answer 
just yet.  This series has really captured everyone's attention & there is a wait 
list for each title in my MS.
 
I'm in a Catholic school and we have the first three. There isn't a problemwith 
them. In the last one there aren't any graphic sexual descriptions butthere is some 
sexual innuendo. I don't have the last one in my library yetand I am not sure that 
I will but I think it should be fine for high school.I am in a middle school.
 
Our secondary library, which serves about 600 students in grades 6 - 12, does not 
carry it in their collection. However, my own daughter and many of her friends have 
read the series and attended the Barnes & Noble August party of Twilight. I have 
not objected to her reading it, because she is old enough and mature enough to 
decide if she wants to. As she reached the middle of the story, she became 
increasingly disappointed in the storyline, and she told me she was actually 
finding it hard to finish, due to some moral conflicts that she could not digest.
 
Our guidelines at school preclude it as a part of our curriculum, and you should 
check your own policy for further input. The high school's newpaper (a state award 
winner) gave a review of the book, even though it's not included in the collection, 
because of the interest.
 
I found it interesting that you asked this group this question. Most of our 
LM-NETers are diehard "Free To Read" librarians who detest any restriction. I doubt 
that you'll get many negatives on this.
I’ve read all of the Twilight series, and so has my 13-year-old daughter.  There 
are references to having a sexual relationship, but Bella and Edward agree to wait 
until they are married so it could be considered a “talking point”.  The topic is 
barely touched upon in the first book, but in the third they actually get married 
and begin a physical relationship.  Nothing graphic, but could be objectionable to 
some.  I would advise you to read them if you’re considering them for your library. 
 They are certainly well-written and exciting and kids (especially girls) love them.
 
It's hard to imagine anything objectionable in the "Twilight" series even in a 
religious setting.  But, I don't know if I'm the best judge of that because I teach 
in a large urban high school and in an effort to reach many reluctant readers, I 
have lots of books that would never pass muster in a religious high school.  I grew 
up in a small Mormon town, although I'm not Mormon myself, and could definitely see 
Stephenie Meyer's upbringing in the "Twilight" books.  No one ever uses profanity 
or misses out on school or homework, much less smokes, drinks, takes drugs or has 
premarital sex.  The teenagers are respectful to their parents and actually are 
useful around the house.  As far as sexual content, it seems they never get beyond 
"first base" as they called it in my day, and that was a long time ago!  
 
Lots of people will probably tell you the same thing. The first 3 books are very 
tame. The author is a a religious Mormon and there is no sex or swearing at all in 
the first 3 books. In the last one. Bella and Edward get married and consumate the 
marriage. The sex is not explicit but it is implied that they are very zealous 
about it. There is some gore in the last one as well. When Bella gives birth there 
is a lot blood and the baby breaks her spine. I have the first 3 in my secular 
middle school but I am not adding the last one. I think it's too much for MS kids.
Twilight, New Moon and Eclipse do not have overt sexual content.  Bella kisses 
Edward some and describes his lips as being "cold", and I think she might touch his 
bare chest and says the same thing about that.  They are clothed and I don't see 
anything untoward in their interactions.  In the 4th book, Edward and Bella get 
married and she has a baby.  I haven't read it yet, but I asked a "Twilighter" 
teacher at my school (who is in her 50s like me!) and she said it's a little gross 
in the description of blood when Bella gives birth, but she felt like it was 
appropriate even for our 6th graders.  Our 6th graders love these books (actually, 
so do our 7th and 8th graders) and I have had no complaints so far. Are your 
students already reading the books outside of school?  You might want to buy just 
the first two and see how that goes over with the students and the parents.  I 
resisted reading Twilight for weeks when it first came out.  Our girls were 
hounding me and I kept telling them how I wasn't into Vampire Romance!!  THEN, the 
8th grade boys started coming in and raving about Twilight and telling me to read 
it.  I did and loved it!  I have loaned it to many of my adult friends who really 
liked it, too.  I am now an official "Twilighter"!
The "sex" was an issue with me as well, but then one of my middle school girls 
said, "But at least Bella waits until she's married to have sex... and a baby."  
That's a more positive role model than many of our YA novels--and tv programs--and 
movies, etc. exhibit.  I was sold.  The books, all four are in my collection, but 
rarely on my shelves because they are in constant circulation  I have 14 reserves 
for the first book.  Good luck with your decision :)
 
I am new to LMNet, but a big Twilight fan. The book is appropriate for areligious 
school. The entire series underlying theme is abstinence andwaiting for marriage. 
There are sex scenes in the last book (hope I didn'truin the surprise for you!), so 
that book may not be appropriate for some.They are not explicit and again stress 
the importance of love and being withsomeone to whom you have pledged your life. In 
the first three books,there is sexual tension. The author often refers to not 
throwing awayeternal life for immediate pleasure and taking the moral option 
(vampiresthat are "vegetarian", sex, relationships, everything). When my parents 
ask about the books (I'm in a middle school), I tell them toread them with their 
children. I also tell some particularly hesitantparents that the underlying theme 
is abstinence, but not to let theirchildren know that- it may ruin the allure. Hope 
that helps.
 
Stephenie Meyer, who wrote the series, is a Moromon herself, and whilethe main 
characters do have sex in the final book, it is not graphicallydepicted and they 
are married at the time. We have it in our schoollibrary, however, we are not a 
religious school. I think this should befine though, because although she is 
writing about vampires and teenageromance, all of Ms Meyer's religious beliefs are 
not compromised in herwriting. You can find out more info on her 
websitewww.stepheniemeyer.com.
 
We have all four books; however, we are doing a permission slip for book #4 because 
the main characters go on a honeymoon(even though they don't give specifics about 
sex) and she has a baby that almost kills her. As long as the parents sign the 
permission slip, we let them check it out.
 
I would say that it would be very appropriate. The lead male character wants to 
wait until they are married to have sex. I think that would agree with the values 
that a religious school would have. When they do get married, in the last book, it 
is not graphic at all. It focuses more on the love they feel between them and how 
they want to be together forever.
That's the beauty of Twilight - there is NO sex (or swearing) in the whole book. As 
a matter of fact, there's hardly any kissing because when Edward (the vampire) 
kisses Bella (the human) he wants to bite her so they must abstain as much as 
possible. The author grew up in a strict Mormon home and there are underweavings of 
her strong faith based throughout the series.
I would say there is absolutely nothing in it to prevent it from beingin a 
religious high school. I work in a Christian 3-12 grade school,and I cannot have it 
because I fear the parents - NOT the content ofthe book. Parents of the students 
here are extremely legalistic, opinionated,would have it banned in a second for a 
large variety of reasons (thevampires, werewolves, ideas of immortality, the author 
is Mormon,Edward is in Bella's bed every night (this would still be looked downupon 
in spite of the fact that they choose abstinence beforemarriage)...you name it. Of 
course not all our parents are thisstrict, but a large enough population of them 
are that keep ourcollection squeaky clean to avoid all conflict. This is 
heartbreakingsince I devoured and simply loved the series and know of all the 
greatbooks our collection is missing. I would base your opinion on your parents. 
Good luck with your decision!
 
look here: 
http://www.reelzchannel.com/article/754/10/10-things%20parents-should-know-
I am the media specialist at a Catholic High School. When I started, the first 2 
books of the series were already in the collection. That being said, I have just 
completed reading the entire series. Although the story hints to the fact that they 
had/or are having sex, there are no specific details. I like the fact that they 
waited until they were married before they had sex. I think there are many good 
qualities in the characters that we try and teach our students everyday: Honor, 
integrity, loyalty, etc. My only suggestion would be to read the series and then 
decide for yourself. I truly enjoyed to series and am looking forward to the movie 
premiering on Nov. 21.
 
I would say the first three books would be fine for a religious high school.  The 
sexual content in the first three books is minimal.  You will probably want to read 
the fourth one before you put it out.  The sex is not implicit, but is strongly 
implied. (After Edward and Bella marry, I might point out!)  Also, the childbirth 
scene is pretty strong.
 
There is talk of sex, but it does not actually occur until the 4th book.  I did not 
find it graphic.  Mainly they talk of the before and after...not the during.
 
From birth through third grade,You learn to read.From fourth grade through the rest 
of your life,You read to learn. "Books should go where they will be most 
appreciated, and not sit unread, gathering dust on a forgotten shelf. . ." 
Christopher Paolini, Brisingr
 
Basya Karp, Librarian
Shulamith High School and Shulamith School For Girls
Brooklyn, NY
basyak10@hotmail.com
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