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  The really annoying "bad" word that was going the rounds in my school a
couple of years ago was b*gger.  The kids assumed that it meant someone who
"bugged" someone else.  Whenever I heard someone using it, I made them look
it up in the dictionary.  The response was usually "Oh gross!"  and then
they stopped using it.

  Diane Gallagher-Hayashi
  Teacher-Librarian
  Stelly's School
  Saanich School District (63)
  Saanichton, British Columbia
  Canada
  Diane_Hayashi@sd63.bc.ca
  daichan@shaw.ca

  "I may not be an explorer, or an adventurer, or a treasure-seeker, or a
gunfighter, Mr. O'Connell, but I am proud of what I am...I, am a librarian!"
  The Mummy
  ----- Original Message -----
  From: "Cathy Rettberg" <crettberg@MENLOSCHOOL.ORG>
  To: <LM_NET@LISTSERV.SYR.EDU>
  Sent: Monday, October 11, 2004 7:53 AM
  Subject: Re: Need feedback: Bad Words


  > I too don't like the word and go nuts if it is used by my own kids. At
  > school however I have learned to roll with it - I spent 8 years in
  > elementary and even the kids there used it all the time. The parents
  > even used it! Now that I'm in a 6-12 school I don't make a big deal
  > about it, though if I disagree with the opinion that something "sucks"
  > I let them know. I do also on occasion point out (as I do for other
  > four letter words) that there are other, much more clever, ways to
  > express that opinion!  "Use of four letter words indicates a lazy mind"
  > - yep, they are tired of hearing that!
  >
  > Cathy
  > -----------
  > Cathy Rettberg, MLIS
  > Head Librarian, Menlo School
  > Atherton, CA
  > crettberg@menloschool.org
  >
  >
  > On Monday, October 11, 2004, at 02:18  AM, Dawn Sardes wrote:
  >
  > > When I was a child, in the 60's, people, at times, used a word that I
  > > was told was bad to use to say that this person or that thing or some
  > > situation "sucks."
  > >
  > > I was told that it was okay to say that a baby "sucks" his bottle, but
  > > not to use it in that other context.  Later, although nobody actually
  > > told me this, I surmised that it was "bad" because it was a reference
  > > to certain acts.
  > >
  > > I hear this word being used in this context all the time--even on
  > > national network television.  When did this become ok?  When I was
  > > young, I got my mouth washed out with soap for using it.  I taught my
  > > kids to not use it to describe or deride a event or situation, and
  > > especially not a person.  That is what the word "stinks" is for.
  > >
  > > When I taught, I did not allow that use of that word in my class or
  > > school, and was backed up by faculty.
  > >
  > > Today, in my public library, as we were about 15 minutes from closing,
  > > one of our printers began repeatedly jamming (my library offers free,
  > > unlimited printing--a "service" that is taken for granted and widely
  > > abused and that costs us over $15,000/year, but that's another rant).
  > > I turned it off and announced that it was broken.
  > >
  > > A young man came up and asked to be placed on a pc on the other side
  > > of the library.  Those pc's on that side have their own printer.
  > > However, we have an automated sign-up system (invented by our tech
  > > guy) that assigns pc's randomly.  There is no way to make sure someone
  > > gets a specific pc.
  > >
  > > When I explained that we could not do that, the young man told me that
  > > "Your Tech guy really "sucks."
  > >
  > > It took all my willpower not to get up and slap him.  None of my
  > > co-workers "suck" and I told him that.  Our tech guy is an absolute
  > > wonder.  He is a techie God.  Then this smug, self-important
  > > little......person...offered to come in & teach him how to properly
  > > wire a library.  I offered him Matt's card and told him to call him.
  > >
  > > I am still fuming.  Am I hopelessly out of date in my evaluation of
  > > this word?  Am I the only one left who thinks it is wrong? I have to
  > > admit, it is one reason I've stopped watching TV (except for news and
  > > I even hear it there).  Maybe it is not a bad word, like I have always
  > > thought, but isn't it at least rude and inappropriate?
  > >
  > >
  > >
  > >
  > > Dawn M. Sardes
  > > Teen Services Librarian
  > > Euclid Public Library
  > > Euclid, OH
  > > dawn511@adelphia.net
  > >
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